Madness

[Baby Mama Drama]

Ok well to get a quick background I dated my husband for two years before we got married less than four months ago. We are newlyweds and let me tell you drama had errupted thereafter. Well I really don't like my inlaws because I feel they have no respect for me. I have gotten into arguments with my husbands sister and his cousin, mainly because they weren't minding their business. My husbands mother is more of the sneaky type. She of course shows favoritism towards my husbands baby mother. My husband has a child by another woman. The child is now three. The baby mother has been an attention seekin person telln my husbands mother that I am "bothering" her when I have simply tried to be civilized. She doesn't let my husband see his child without trying to physically fight him. She has even gone as far as spitting on him, yes spitting on him. She had told my husbands mother that she would fight me and him for whatever reason. My husbands mother has been in the middle of the drama as well. Everyone makes it look as if im the bad guy when im really the innocent one here. Soon after we got married my husbands bm allowed the child to come down, but only to start with my husbands mother?.. They live about 9 hours away. Well she had flipped when she seen that i posted a picture of the child on facebook, and that I was goin to be around the child. She immediately got in her car and drove 9 hours to pick up her child. She then wanted to fight me. My husbands mother allowed her to stay at their house for like the weekend. I feel all this nuts is a mess and it's hard not to get pissed and go off. What do you guys think of this? Me and my husband are now trying to get a lawyer but really don't have the funds for it.