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Post by KD on Jul 8, 2013 13:38:36 GMT -5
I went to court to get visitation rights to see my child. At first everything was fine, then she started doing things to get me to stay over longer. I'm suppose to get my child at 3 every wed but we mutually decided to change it to 1. First it started with the child wants you to sit over here for a little bit today. Then it went to I have to feed her or she is in the tub. Just little things to make me sit over there. Now its to the point of where my little girl is falling out saying she wants mommy to come. I voiced my concern with her that I wanted to change the time back to 3 because I'm not getting the full visitation time because I have to sit over there for 30 mins to an hour and she said I will see. Should I not say anything about sitting over there for 30 mins to an hour to avoid having to go back to court? Then another thing I have my mom and girlfriend fussing at me saying that I will only cause problems down the line if I OK my BM behavior. What should I do?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2013 11:10:38 GMT -5
I agree, you will only cause more problems for yourself if you continue to feed into your BM's stunts. If you have a court order in writing that states your pickup time is 3, then that should be your pickup time...especially if your BM cant handle the other arrangement with some sense. If you have a court order, she cannot interfere with that just bc she wants to, you could call the police and have them escort you to get your daughter at the appropriate time once and I bet she will get the point then. There is no reason she should have your daughter ready to go with you at the appropriate time. All this "she needs to eat" and "she needs a bath" happens BEFORE you are to be there! She is trying to be slick!
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Post by Chrissa on Jul 28, 2013 18:49:10 GMT -5
Hi there. Honestly I think you need to discuss with her what your expectations are at visiting time, that way there are absolutely no issues. You need to set the ground rules, and stick to court papers as closely as possible. She either needs to fed and bathed before hand, OR it should be "as-is." Clean or not, mabie you can clean her? Fed or not? Make the ground rules now and try not to break them on your side. You're a good person and this is a tough situation; try not to break anything, your back, your heart, or the rules. Good Luck!
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