Post by babysteps on Aug 28, 2013 12:17:14 GMT -5
first let me say hey everyone, i have not been on here in years wow, how i have grown back in 2008 i was sick that my BD left me for his now fiance my baby was only a month old and you all helped me thru that heartache, well 5 years later and all i can do is smh! so back in 2009 we went to court for visitation and child support and everything was fine no arguments life was good of course he would try the usual i miss u, but i blew that ish off! quickly especially since i have a man, so moving forward my Bd would get his daughter every other weekend and then all of a sudden he stopped getting her as much, this was right around the time i heard rumors of him getting some girl pregnant and not the current fiance well i found out it was true so, in my mind I'm like oh hell no! let me go back and get and increase before this chicks decides to put him on CS and that's just what i did and got it too! i invited him and his fiance to my daughters kindergarten graduation and neither showed but i saw a post via FB that they were out of town , now when i invited them they said they would be there and since court he hasn't called her or picked her up all summer and her feelings are hurt we have joint custody i now want sole custody what do you guys think ? i mean gee-sh in the begging he took me to court and now because i ask for more money you don't wanna see your daughter anymore and not to mention your fiance condones this behavior from you i would at least think she would advise him better but hey I'm sure its probably way more on her plate than worrying bout my daughter seeing as though she was the one he was cheating on me with and she knew about me now look smh! i feel bad for her because she thought he was gone treat her better than he did me no boo-boo , once a cheater in my book will always be one.