Post by awsomalx on May 7, 2008 23:18:06 GMT -5
If the guy is out of work and you want to leave him............I say bounce, you'll be doing him a favor! His BM will be justified (as that's what she wants anyhow) and you'll save him the frustration of you doing it later when some other speed bump appears in the road.
My younger brother is going through somethings job related and his new bride is far from any help (actually she's non existant to a point). Luckily we have a great family structure and he's going to be alright (may be months from now but he will eventually be okay). Your post reminds me of his struggles. He doesn't have a BM (Thank God) but he has a wife that is far from supportive.
If your DH has been out of work for a while, you dislike how he deals with BM and all of it's putting a strain on you, by all means bounce. You'll be mentally happier, he'll be forced to get his mind right (I've been where he is and sometimes all that's happening negatively, depresses you and it kills your focus) and that will allow him to climb his way out of his slump (and a slump is all it is, unless he dies before he gets back to work).
My younger brother is going through somethings job related and his new bride is far from any help (actually she's non existant to a point). Luckily we have a great family structure and he's going to be alright (may be months from now but he will eventually be okay). Your post reminds me of his struggles. He doesn't have a BM (Thank God) but he has a wife that is far from supportive.
If your DH has been out of work for a while, you dislike how he deals with BM and all of it's putting a strain on you, by all means bounce. You'll be mentally happier, he'll be forced to get his mind right (I've been where he is and sometimes all that's happening negatively, depresses you and it kills your focus) and that will allow him to climb his way out of his slump (and a slump is all it is, unless he dies before he gets back to work).
