Post by MaeMae on Jun 13, 2014 12:06:53 GMT -5
Good Afternoon Ladies!!!
Just lucked up on this site and thought a lil support from others dealing with some of the same things might be a good idea...
Ok long story short, my soon to be husband's BM has been giving us the blues for over a year now. Her now husband has been trying to provoke my fiancé into fighting him since April of 2011. He has remained calm even though it’s very very trying, we've made certain that we saved email, and text messages and per legal advice filed police reports to document everything in the event something were to jump off. We believe this is being done so she can claim he's violent and she can try to order the suspension of visitations.
With that being said, I am in my early 40s and really have never dealt with anything like this before, not even with my Son's father. I have never gotten involved in his dealings with her, I try to listen and give him sound advice and keep him calm but I have never said 2 words to this girl, because she is just that "a girl". She has recently not been showing up to drop off the kids at the designate location for his weekend visits and he has not seen them in 3mths. After a Contempt of court proceeding to change the location for exchange she texted me stating how could I support him in taking her to custody court? & asked to sit down with me so she can tell me all about how in the past he lied to her and me being "older" I should be able to do that. Child Bye!!!
I don’t trust her or anything she says, my fiancé has always paid his support and gets his sons when he should. She has done so much over the past year that I'm ready to put my "PAWS" on her but I'm trying to just put in the LORDS hands, the grown women in me knows that I have to ignore the ramblings of a bitter ex and keep it moving however it's really difficult.
So I ask you ladies if there is any advice or encouragement you all could give would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks much!
Mae
Just lucked up on this site and thought a lil support from others dealing with some of the same things might be a good idea...
Ok long story short, my soon to be husband's BM has been giving us the blues for over a year now. Her now husband has been trying to provoke my fiancé into fighting him since April of 2011. He has remained calm even though it’s very very trying, we've made certain that we saved email, and text messages and per legal advice filed police reports to document everything in the event something were to jump off. We believe this is being done so she can claim he's violent and she can try to order the suspension of visitations.
With that being said, I am in my early 40s and really have never dealt with anything like this before, not even with my Son's father. I have never gotten involved in his dealings with her, I try to listen and give him sound advice and keep him calm but I have never said 2 words to this girl, because she is just that "a girl". She has recently not been showing up to drop off the kids at the designate location for his weekend visits and he has not seen them in 3mths. After a Contempt of court proceeding to change the location for exchange she texted me stating how could I support him in taking her to custody court? & asked to sit down with me so she can tell me all about how in the past he lied to her and me being "older" I should be able to do that. Child Bye!!!
I don’t trust her or anything she says, my fiancé has always paid his support and gets his sons when he should. She has done so much over the past year that I'm ready to put my "PAWS" on her but I'm trying to just put in the LORDS hands, the grown women in me knows that I have to ignore the ramblings of a bitter ex and keep it moving however it's really difficult.
So I ask you ladies if there is any advice or encouragement you all could give would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks much!
Mae
