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Post by angelnmo on May 11, 2008 1:42:42 GMT -5
That's funny! Well, I guess if you're rich that's the better option. To spend lots of money on yourself to stay healthy, rather than spend millions on child support, and have nothing to show for it. Ha Ha!!!
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Post by lovejones08 on May 13, 2008 1:48:07 GMT -5
ngoodman, yes I would like for you to futher explain stay out of it. Now what you said about you girl trying to go out to lunch with bm and all that extra sh*t it a bit too much because she should be asking you questions if she really wants to know something about you and you past, but if the bm is acting like a gotd**n fool with your gf/wife how should she stay out of it? Also, if your child is choking on a chicken bone would you like for her to walk off and say o well cough kid cough hell that's not my child so i'm staying out of it? So what say you on staying out of it because that comment in very interesting.
c'mon men where are you awsom, black bible, veron we want you opinions.
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Post by destini1969 on May 13, 2008 11:20:26 GMT -5
How funny, choking on a chicken bone?? I am with you, GF/wife can't stay out of it if she is constantly being thrown into the mix!
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Post by ngoodman on May 16, 2008 23:09:53 GMT -5
i had time to think over my situation with my bm and i am going to stop kickin it wit her but i dont want to end up like some of these brothas on this site. i would rather "play nice" rather than be without my kid.
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Post by awsomalx on May 16, 2008 23:58:37 GMT -5
i would rather "play nice" rather than be without my kid. HYSTERICAL! You can't play nice with CBM's. Guess that's something you'll come to learn on your own. |
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Post by lovejones08 on May 18, 2008 20:50:08 GMT -5
I wonder if "playing nice" is a nicer phrase for having your cake and eating it too!!
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Post by destini1969 on May 19, 2008 6:13:42 GMT -5
Hey lovejones I think you're right! Playing nice does sound like you're trying to have your cake and eat it too! This is probably what adds to BMs craziness. The men going back and forth to put another knotch on their belt just to say they have it under control and in actuality they don't. It's sad because the BM is too stupid to realize when they are being used and then they become offended because the man has moved on.
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Post by nomoredrama on May 19, 2008 6:49:31 GMT -5
In ngoodman's case, he is setting himself up for BMD. He obviously has not moved on because he is still going back to the BM. The BM is leftovers that he is not ready to throw out of the refrigerator yet. So when the BD meets another woman, the BM does not respect the relationship because the BD is still sleeping with the BM. In that case the BM is tolerating the girlfriend and waiting her out because she still feels as though she has some claim on the BD since they are still sleeping together. In the BM's mind she is thinking, "If he was so in love with his girlfriend, why are you still sleeping with me?" The BM is thinking that her stuff is so good that the BD won't give it up no matter how many women the BD dates. The BM is not recognizing that she is being used because she is a woman and we are emotional beings. The BM is equating sex with the BDs love for her...The BD is sending the BM mixed signals but then doesn't seem to understand why he has BMD. Either the BD is immature & stupid or is just too selfish to care.
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Post by awsomalx on May 19, 2008 13:27:53 GMT -5
I just have to correct something as it's been stated wrong several time in this thread.......................
You CAN have your cake and eat it. (cut a slice -- h3ll eat 3/4's of it-- and you still have some left)
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You CAN'T Eat your cake and have it as well (try eating all of anything and still have it in front of you, impossible)
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Post by destini1969 on May 19, 2008 18:12:00 GMT -5
I just have to correct something as it's been stated wrong several time in this thread....................... You CAN have your cake and eat it. (cut a slice -- h3ll eat 3/4's of it-- and you still have some left) . . You CAN'T Eat your cake and have it as well (try eating all of anything and still have it in front of you, impossible) You're correct awsomalx and that's why the man gets busted each time eating ALL OF THE CAKE! They are greedy and don't realize (until later) the cake they've just eaten was more than satisfactory, but because of their greed they look for more. GREEDY! Just like the BM when it comes to BD finances. GREEDY! |
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Post by lovejones08 on May 19, 2008 23:41:27 GMT -5
thanks Destini, you can have you cake eat it but not the whole d**n thing glutony is an issue. Being greedy will always get you in trouble. which these men with these ridulous exes have proven.
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Post by destini1969 on May 20, 2008 15:33:53 GMT -5
LOL.... That's right glutony is a huge problem!
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Post by ngoodman on May 21, 2008 20:15:55 GMT -5
yal screem glutoney but yall need to stop making it so d**n easy. man think about it, most of yall take all kinds of sh*t from us just to say you got a man. So yall is just as much to blame for this too not just the BM.
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Post by lovejones08 on May 26, 2008 11:02:49 GMT -5
HAHAHHAH!!! ngood..you slay me with your emotional come backs. Just because it'd easy doesn't mean you have to take it eat it smack it up flip it rub it down... d**n GLUTONEY!!!
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Post by destini1969 on May 26, 2008 12:38:29 GMT -5
Smack it up, flip it, rub it down... I like to do the wild thang! BELL BIV DEVOE was the jam back in the day! LMBO!
Men like it when it comes easy! If you got it easy, so did the next man! There is nothing special about an easy lay, nothing to boast about there!
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