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Post by Founder on Mar 21, 2021 4:10:10 GMT -5
Please join us as we discuss another dramatic story from our book "Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama" , it's so much more! “I Don’t Have Time For Your BS. I’ve Got To Work In The Morning” Our baby mama calls and texts my man a lot at night which I think is inappropriate. I could get in his face about it, but the conversations seem to be about the kids. Here lately I think he has gotten tired of her and sometimes 18 will not answer the phone or reply to the texts. For some reason, she thinks I am the cause of it. One, I am not petty and two, I don’t have time to be up all night like that because I have a job to go to in the morning. Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama - Theme 1 - Page 17 Click here to listen to the recorded reading of this story. Click here to get a printed or digital copy of the book. |
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Post by Founder on Mar 21, 2021 4:10:33 GMT -5
So What's The Deal Here? 1.) For some reason it seems very common to identify the new love interest (man or woman) as the enemy. The thought process here is that the best advice you can get in a situation like this is likely coming from the same sex. So the baby mama is assuming that the baby daddy didn’t have sense enough to shut her down and it was likely the other woman’s influence. The BD’s woman was able to “peep her game". 2.) People can justify all kinds of communication for the sake of the kids. Oh...the kids left their socks or pacifier or favorite toy...and I need to get it tonight, so bring it right over. That’s not right. You need to be respectful of the significant other and of other people’s time. Calling the other parent is not an issue per se, but the baby mama should be judging the importance of the phone call or text each time. Now on the other hand, has the baby daddy been going along with this plan all along. He could be contributing to this problem. Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama - Theme 1 - Page 17 Sincerely, Founder babymamadrama.comDISCLAIMER ----------- Please consult with your own legal or counseling professional regarding any information or suggestions. You understand that this information is not intended as a substitute for consultation with a legal professional. Before taking any action in your own co-parenting or family drama situation, you should consult a licensed professional to ensure that you are doing what is right for your situation. |
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Post by Founder on Mar 21, 2021 4:10:51 GMT -5
So What Can You Do? 1.) The new woman needs to really stay out of it unless the baby daddy does not want to speak up. It is really the job of the daddy to explain to the baby mama that she should not call him at certain times, be specific about when it is OK to communicate unless it is an emergency. 2.) If you don’t say anything over a long period of time, you are really fueling the baby mama’s actions. Also, when dealing with this situation, the baby daddy might want to be careful not to let the baby mama know she is irritating his new woman because the baby mama might be feeding off that. 3.) Be careful not to get to the point where you stop responding to the calls and texts and basically disappear. So you really have to do something before it gets to that point. Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama - Theme 1 - Page 17 Sincerely, Founder babymamadrama.comDISCLAIMER ----------- Please consult with your own legal or counseling professional regarding any information or suggestions. You understand that this information is not intended as a substitute for consultation with a legal professional. Before taking any action in your own co-parenting or family drama situation, you should consult a licensed professional to ensure that you are doing what is right for your situation. |
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Post by withneycamila on Sept 20, 2021 17:24:37 GMT -5
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