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Post by gemmani on Jun 25, 2008 10:37:20 GMT -5
I agree with tellit, I say f*ck the b*tch. If she has nothing positive to add to my life, then she need not be in my life.
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Post by whenwillwomenlearn on Jun 27, 2008 6:43:45 GMT -5
No Sweetheart you sound like the bitter one. Y r u so bitter? Did I strike a nerve?  I believe anyone can post to this discussion forum so I will continue to post my opinions. Child support is to help support our children-thats why he has to pay. Its not punishment but reality. Spousal support is a reality. He supported me when he wanted me to raise our child fulltime. When he decided to move out his responsibility to ME and our kids dont end. He has to pay period. It boils down to costs. Kids cost money. It cost to run a household. We had bills that he couldnt walk away from. Period. There is no more bitterness because he ended the marriage. If I wanted him back I could have him. He tried to come back many times. He even tried to cheat with me on his 2nd wife & the woman he is with now. I dont want him. He sleeperd around on me enough during our marriage so I am happy to be free of him. All I want is him to be a dad to our kids. That includes helping to support them. You arent married yet but when you do you will find out that marriage is hard. I dont wish what I went through on anyone. People dont marry hoping that the marriage will end but the harsh reality is that most do end. Anyone of you could be in my shoes. Until you are-and I hope you never are-but until then you dont know how you will react. It is easy to say what you wont do but when you are dealing with it you find out. |
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Post by gemmani on Jun 27, 2008 9:45:14 GMT -5
I know that I won't spend my time bashing others for trying to find help for their problems. It sickens me to hear women like you sit on their high horse and judge others. Maybe the reason you got divorced in the first place is because you didn't stand by your man- which is what you are bashing US for doing.
Its great that you feel how you do, but there's a better way to state your opinions b/c you came off kind of bad- THAT'S the reason I'm coming at you like this, not bitterness. I love my life.
Of course you can post wherever you want, but you CHOSE to post here, probably b/c of unfinished issues with your situation.
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Post by babydaddysupport on Jul 5, 2008 22:22:50 GMT -5
Who takes care of these kids when they come to BD's house?  We do! We give them the stability they aren't getting at home. I don't know about the rest of you, but my SS12 loves me to death and will not tolerate BM having anything to say about me. Gotta show em love! |
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Post by babydaddysupport on Jul 8, 2008 23:37:17 GMT -5
There are alot of BDs out there that do anything humanly possible to be the good guy and all they get for it is DRAMA!!! I am a BM and I have a great relationship with my child's father. We speak on a daily basis and he and his new wife come to the house for family events. There is no need in all the BS. My H's BM on the other hand, that is another story...all she does is cause turmoil. My SS12 will need therapy for many years to come thanks to her.
She hasn't worked in 7 years...it is my H's job to support her and the second child she had, because his daddy is disabled. So my H is looked to to be the sole supporter of her household. The SS12 is blurting out that he has medicaid now and food stamps. I had to explain to him that was not something that he should preach about. The younger sibling sits on bologna and cheese at the grocery store to assist her in shoplifting! GET A JOB! I don't know what it takes. Some women. She states that "he will support me!" My SS12 compalins about not having things he wants and says his mom told him "you need to contribute to the household, that money is to pay bills." Who does that?!?!?
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Post by youknowwhatitis on Jul 9, 2008 10:16:19 GMT -5
I don't see anything wrong with food stamps or Medicaid if you need them. But to allow that to be your lot in life.....is just ridiculous if you are able bodied and can work and or go to school. To allow yourself and your children to sit in the stew you've made is not right. Get therapy and get off your ass and get a JOB!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by gemmani on Jul 9, 2008 10:19:47 GMT -5
Preach on Youknow!
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Post by wowposter on Sept 9, 2008 10:10:58 GMT -5
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I believe anyone can post to this discussion forum so I will continue to post my opinions. 
We do! We give them the stability they aren't getting at home. I don't know about the rest of you, but my SS12 loves me to death and will not tolerate BM having anything to say about me. Gotta show em love!