Taking a Big girl step

[youknowwhatitis]

I am taking a big step and writing a letter to BD and let him know my grievances, how I feel about them, him , his family etc. I told him that after I mail off the letter I am closing the chapter on him in my personal life. As tellit said in one of her prior post " you cannot remain fixated on that person and what they did or ain't doing for ever." It's time to move on.....but 1st I need to express myself fully. I will let you know what the results are.

[gemmani]

Good Luck with that. Here's a tip: put it in outline form. Add bullets and sections. Guys sometimes miss things in letter form. Give your first grievance (A), your reasons (1,2,3.....). Make it SIMPLE so BD can fully understand.

[youknowwhatits]

Good insight tellit. I never thought of it that way. I just thought the fool was selfish and crazy. Which he is, but maybe he will shed some light on his thought patttern.