Post by youknowwhatitis on Jul 12, 2008 10:54:10 GMT -5
I am writing this because it was too much to put in a text message.
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In my opinion, you and your family are not true Christians like you pretend to be. Spiritual understanding is essential to life. Hear are some things I believe you need to hear from me. A lot of people agree with me that:
· No infant child goes off with people whom they do not know and are not familiar with.
· It takes time to get to know a child.
· No woman in their right mind is going to let you or anyone else they don’t know or have a relationship with and who has not been warm and inviting to them get their child for a weekend. BE FOR REAL. Maybe a ½ day if they were warm and inviting but again. BE FOR REAL.
· Nobody tricked you into doing anything. The child is yours it’s only right to legally acknowledge him and he has both last names. I sent you pictures of him. Again, let’s not be ridiculous.
· Nobody’s trying to get money from you. Look at how I live, better than the average. My daddy has plenty of money and the rest of my family me included would NEVER allow Jaylin to be without.
· Also two people made Jaylin and two people should help support him. Unlike your family, my family looks out for it’s own. It should have nothing to do with how much you see him, that is so selfish. It has to with LOVE. I buy my god daughter things all the time and I don’t see her that much. Jaylin’s god dad lives in Atlanta and buys him things all the time and ships it to St. Louis. He doesn’t see him yet he stills cares for him and looks out for him.
· I don’t need your money but my son is entitled to it and I won’t let you short change him because I love him.
· Jaylin is the important one here you and I are secondary.
· Also, who would try to get a child whom they did not believe is yours social security number. He was yours when your family wanted his social security number to cash in on him. And as soon as the script flips almost 12 months later now he’s not yours. Whoever came up with that definitely needs Jesus. It’s sad to see family turn on family for Money.
· True Christian people don’t judge people by outward appearances and circumstances or by financial status because those things are subject to change. You might want to see if you’re even saved I highly doubt that you are.
· True Christian families do not encourage their family members to reject responsibility. Nor do they side with them knowing that they are wrong. Also true Christian families do not come to conclusions about people or situations without hearing both sides of the matter. For Proverbs 18:17 clearly states, “The first to plead his cause seems right until his neighbor comes and examines him.” True Christians guard against making snap judgements. Scripture insists that people listen to the testimony of two or three witnesses precisely so they do not make hasty judgement. That’s why in court cases there is a plantiff and a defendant.
· A true Christian is strong in their convictions. They wouldn’t allow others to persuade them that the child they conceived in private is not or possibly not theirs. They were not there when the child was conceived so they have no right to question your child’s paternity. A true Christian would have recognized that those people were tools of devil wanting to stir up strife and confusion. For the Bible says, “ where jealousy and selfish ambition is there will you find every evil work.” The test proved that my character and integrity to be intact.
· A true Christian family would have looked out for your son while you were hospitalized on your behalf. A true Christian would have taken sincere interest in at least getting to know his child after he got out of the hospital. Not attempt to keep up strife, or not show any interest in him at all.
· What I am not or am good for should no longer be any of your concern.
I graduate this year 2008 from the RN nursing program I enrolled in after Jaylin was born. God has truly been instrumental in my success. God has truly shown himself strong on my behalf. My friends and family are impressed with my courage, strength and tenacity under so much unnecessary drama. Also for the record my mom talked to you because I didn’t have time for your foolishness, and I still don’t. I needed to protect my focus. However, your actions were totally uncalled for. It revealed your character and the dark condition of your heart. Pride bringeth a man low. Blaming others and refusing to take personal responsibility for your actions will never elevate you to great heights. What Satan meant for my bad, God turned it around for my good. I recently completed an internship and I am doing well. I forgive you and your family for your inaction as well as your actions. I refuse to walk through life burdened with hate and saddled down with anger and resentment. My prayer is that you find the peace and faith in God I have. Soon the good life I always imagined will be a reality. Whether you ever do right by Jaylin that’s your personal decision. You will have to answer to God for your actions. Thank you for the opportunity for God to prove his greatness to me. God has shown me and other’s that I am a intelligent, competent, strong woman as well as a good mother and that Jaylin and I deserve only the best life has to offer.
This letter officially closes the chapter in my life regarding the issues mentioned here. They are now as good as forgotten as I will not allow anyone to steal my joy. Life is hard enough without entertaining unnecessary drama. As I forgive, I believe God pours out his blessing continually. Good success that addeth no sorrow comes only from God. I am moving on with my life and I suggest you stop texting me and do the same. For the record: you have always been welcome to visit our son he will be 2 soon. You have been out of his life two years voluntarily.
Too harsh? Good? comments appreciated.
.
In my opinion, you and your family are not true Christians like you pretend to be. Spiritual understanding is essential to life. Hear are some things I believe you need to hear from me. A lot of people agree with me that:
· No infant child goes off with people whom they do not know and are not familiar with.
· It takes time to get to know a child.
· No woman in their right mind is going to let you or anyone else they don’t know or have a relationship with and who has not been warm and inviting to them get their child for a weekend. BE FOR REAL. Maybe a ½ day if they were warm and inviting but again. BE FOR REAL.
· Nobody tricked you into doing anything. The child is yours it’s only right to legally acknowledge him and he has both last names. I sent you pictures of him. Again, let’s not be ridiculous.
· Nobody’s trying to get money from you. Look at how I live, better than the average. My daddy has plenty of money and the rest of my family me included would NEVER allow Jaylin to be without.
· Also two people made Jaylin and two people should help support him. Unlike your family, my family looks out for it’s own. It should have nothing to do with how much you see him, that is so selfish. It has to with LOVE. I buy my god daughter things all the time and I don’t see her that much. Jaylin’s god dad lives in Atlanta and buys him things all the time and ships it to St. Louis. He doesn’t see him yet he stills cares for him and looks out for him.
· I don’t need your money but my son is entitled to it and I won’t let you short change him because I love him.
· Jaylin is the important one here you and I are secondary.
· Also, who would try to get a child whom they did not believe is yours social security number. He was yours when your family wanted his social security number to cash in on him. And as soon as the script flips almost 12 months later now he’s not yours. Whoever came up with that definitely needs Jesus. It’s sad to see family turn on family for Money.
· True Christian people don’t judge people by outward appearances and circumstances or by financial status because those things are subject to change. You might want to see if you’re even saved I highly doubt that you are.
· True Christian families do not encourage their family members to reject responsibility. Nor do they side with them knowing that they are wrong. Also true Christian families do not come to conclusions about people or situations without hearing both sides of the matter. For Proverbs 18:17 clearly states, “The first to plead his cause seems right until his neighbor comes and examines him.” True Christians guard against making snap judgements. Scripture insists that people listen to the testimony of two or three witnesses precisely so they do not make hasty judgement. That’s why in court cases there is a plantiff and a defendant.
· A true Christian is strong in their convictions. They wouldn’t allow others to persuade them that the child they conceived in private is not or possibly not theirs. They were not there when the child was conceived so they have no right to question your child’s paternity. A true Christian would have recognized that those people were tools of devil wanting to stir up strife and confusion. For the Bible says, “ where jealousy and selfish ambition is there will you find every evil work.” The test proved that my character and integrity to be intact.
· A true Christian family would have looked out for your son while you were hospitalized on your behalf. A true Christian would have taken sincere interest in at least getting to know his child after he got out of the hospital. Not attempt to keep up strife, or not show any interest in him at all.
· What I am not or am good for should no longer be any of your concern.
I graduate this year 2008 from the RN nursing program I enrolled in after Jaylin was born. God has truly been instrumental in my success. God has truly shown himself strong on my behalf. My friends and family are impressed with my courage, strength and tenacity under so much unnecessary drama. Also for the record my mom talked to you because I didn’t have time for your foolishness, and I still don’t. I needed to protect my focus. However, your actions were totally uncalled for. It revealed your character and the dark condition of your heart. Pride bringeth a man low. Blaming others and refusing to take personal responsibility for your actions will never elevate you to great heights. What Satan meant for my bad, God turned it around for my good. I recently completed an internship and I am doing well. I forgive you and your family for your inaction as well as your actions. I refuse to walk through life burdened with hate and saddled down with anger and resentment. My prayer is that you find the peace and faith in God I have. Soon the good life I always imagined will be a reality. Whether you ever do right by Jaylin that’s your personal decision. You will have to answer to God for your actions. Thank you for the opportunity for God to prove his greatness to me. God has shown me and other’s that I am a intelligent, competent, strong woman as well as a good mother and that Jaylin and I deserve only the best life has to offer.
This letter officially closes the chapter in my life regarding the issues mentioned here. They are now as good as forgotten as I will not allow anyone to steal my joy. Life is hard enough without entertaining unnecessary drama. As I forgive, I believe God pours out his blessing continually. Good success that addeth no sorrow comes only from God. I am moving on with my life and I suggest you stop texting me and do the same. For the record: you have always been welcome to visit our son he will be 2 soon. You have been out of his life two years voluntarily.
Too harsh? Good? comments appreciated.