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Post by youknowwhatitis on Jul 15, 2008 17:32:05 GMT -5
IT IS A TOTAL VICTORY FOR ME!! He's now resorted to sending nasty text message's but now they have lost their sting. He realizes I am over it and his actions are not hurting me. I have totally disarmed him.
He wan'ts to insult me but he knows now that my feelings can't be hurt....im winning.....it's my game. He try's to lear me into I text message fight......I don't even respond...Ha Ha. Watch him write a reply letter....Keep ya posted...I"m not responding to that either. IT's over....IT'S A WRAP.
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Post by tellit on Jul 15, 2008 17:42:48 GMT -5
Nope, don't respond to any negative responses. The point of your letter was to let him know that you are closing the door. If you respond, then you still have the door open and he will recognize it.
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Post by youknowwhatitis on Jul 15, 2008 22:04:28 GMT -5
Good advice tellit....thanks. Will be heeded.
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Post by angelnmo on Jul 15, 2008 23:39:46 GMT -5
Yes, i agree with tellit. Responding to his texts only shows that you bothered to read it and care what he thinks. I would just erase the texts without even reading them and never respond. It shows that you don't have any feelings for him. In order to respond, you must care. So by not responding, you are showing that you don't care.
The best way to send the message loud and clear to him is through indifference. Trust me. Throwing insults towards someone who doesn't care is like spitting in the wind.
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Post by tellit on Jul 16, 2008 6:18:06 GMT -5
Youknow, is there some way 2 block his text messages? You won't be tempted to respond if you don't see them. Furthermore, harassing text messages have to be annoying. And, it is a form of harassment. If you keep getting them, you may have grounds for a restraining order. Or, you may be able to file harassment charges. How long been receiving the text messages from BD?
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Post by youknowwhatitis on Jul 16, 2008 11:19:12 GMT -5
For the last couple of months now. Now he is so jealous.....I can tell that they all are feeling stupid and frustrated. They were doing all those things to hurt me and felt like they were. They never expected me to write a letter and say I forgive them....basically saying I'm not tripping off them and I don't care anymore. That I think blindsided them....also they didn't expect me to have so much success with school. Their feelings have to be crushed. But me I feel like I've lost 1000lbs. I am treating myself to a 1 hour massage and spa day this Friday. I am soooo elated. Ha Ha Ha...........life is good. But you know what I am not going to read his text messages anymore. I don't need to hear anything from him...like I said....I've moved on. Feels great though you guys. Thanks for the advice.
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Post by wowposter on Sept 9, 2008 10:12:09 GMT -5
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