Cheating on his girlfriend with baby mama

[Stephanie]

Jul 25, 2008 7:08:03 GMT -5 tellit said:

Your child's father is using both you and the other woman. He is having his cake and eating it too. He is playing both of you. He is telling you one thing to make you believe that he is still interested in you. He is lying to the other woman too. Men will do what we ALLOW them to do. Men treat us the way we TEACH them to treat us. Your man (and I use the term loosely) has been taught by you and the other woman that he can say and do whatever he wants.

You two are SHARING him. If you are going to do that, why not just move in together and become one big happy family. He won't have to go back and forth between two houses. He can run back and forth between bedrooms.

No, seriously. You are putting your and your child's health at risk. Do you know that new HIV cases rose by 50% in 2006? Not only is HIV on the rise, other STDs (like herpes) are on the rise as well. The cases are on the rise because people are making unwise decisions regarding their body. I am willing to bet that BD is sleeping with someone else besides his other BM...If you have never caught a disease, it will happen as long as you continue to sleep with him...When you lie down with dogs, you will get up with fleas (or something worse).

Your body is a temple and you are allowing your child's father to disrespect you and your temple. Have more respect for yourself and move on with your life without your child's father. He can still be in your child's life, just not in your life. If it will be hard for you, (since you obviously care for him), then let him take the child for a visit OUTSIDE of your house. Remember that his visit with his child is not about you but about the child. You have to break free from this man...Be STRONG.

[Self confident]

!!Well said darling it's just the way it is . We have too realize and see things the way they are and stop making excuses for others and our self u can't bring water in basket my grandmother would have says yes u said it all too happylover767

[Lou]

I have been with my partner for 3 years and we stopped talking for 3 months during this time I've just found out he slept with his baby mother she told me this and he denied it but has finally told the truth I don't know what to do as we was not together do I let it go ?

[Lou]

Jul 26, 2017 17:15:52 GMT -5 Lou said:

I have been with my partner for 3 years and we stopped talking for 3 months during this time I've just found out he slept with his baby mother she told me this and he denied it but has finally told the truth I don't know what to do as we was not together do I let it go ?

[Sherondawrays]

Jul 25, 2008 3:11:49 GMT -5 jones123 said:

I was with my ex for only 1 1/2 years. Towards the end I got pregnant. Some months after we broke up he started dating this other girl.

He cheated on her for months with me. I still really wanted to make our family work and I always hoped he would eventually leave her for me. After our baby was born, one time we got in a huge fight and I ended up telling the girl that he was cheating on her. So they broke up.... We were about to get back together when about a month later she tells him shes pregnant. So now he gets back with her just because shes pregnant. But of course she doesnt know that because she thinks they are in love and happy. I still dont understand how she could just trust him so easily.

But...he still cheats on her with me. I kept trying to stop it, even though I really want to be with him, I know that its wrong and I need to get over him, especially now hes stuck with this girl. But he just wont let it stop. Not without a fight anyway.

So now this girl is almost 7 months pregnant....with twins. Shes only 18. They are now living together and hes still cheating on her with me. She thinks hes just coming over to see his baby, but every time hes here, he cheats on her. So she has no idea. I know it bothers her that he sees me because she knew of his cheating before she was pregnant, but she cant say anything because he has to see his son.

Now hes telling me he doesnt even want to be with her anymore, that hes in love with me and he wants us to be together someday. So hes begging me to keep up this side-affair til he can break it off with her. But he wants to stay with her for awhile to make sure shes okay with the twins first....


I just dont know what to do. I really love him and wish I could be with him...but I dont like how he is handling this. I dont like how Im handling it either. Sometimes I wish I could break free...but its so hard. I have to see him all the time because he comes and sees our son.


So any advice would be appreciated...Im just so lost in all this mess.

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