Post by gemmani on Aug 4, 2008 10:51:10 GMT -5
I guess it's the same reason they feel that BDs are supposed to always cater to them. For some dumb reason, these women think that because they have a baby by a man, that the man should bow down, kiss her a$$, and always support her.
If BM was a stay-at-home mother while her and BD were together, that doesn't mean that she still gets the benefits of that luxury when they are apart! But that's what they seem to think. It's called being dellusional.
I have NO respect for women like that, BM or not. Doesn't the saying go "God helps those who help themselves"? If they aren't willing to improve their circumstances, why should someone else carry the burden?
And "Going Back to School" doesn't cut it. If you can't support yourself and go back to school , then guess what? Unless you have someone whose WILLING to help, you'd be fresh out of luck. Why should BD have to foot the bill for BM??? BD's only responsibility is his child/children, NOT supporting a grown woman. Ugh, its just too pathetic.
If BM was a stay-at-home mother while her and BD were together, that doesn't mean that she still gets the benefits of that luxury when they are apart! But that's what they seem to think. It's called being dellusional.
I have NO respect for women like that, BM or not. Doesn't the saying go "God helps those who help themselves"? If they aren't willing to improve their circumstances, why should someone else carry the burden?
And "Going Back to School" doesn't cut it. If you can't support yourself and go back to school , then guess what? Unless you have someone whose WILLING to help, you'd be fresh out of luck. Why should BD have to foot the bill for BM??? BD's only responsibility is his child/children, NOT supporting a grown woman. Ugh, its just too pathetic.