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Post by youknowwhatitis on Sept 5, 2008 19:41:38 GMT -5
Why does BD send me a text message today saying............he's going to sue me for stealing his personal information. WTF....another scheme concocted by his angry mama and sister because I'm getting HIS social security money and they can't see my child. Yes I have his ss# because he gave it to me when we filled out the birth certificate at the hospital and when we discussed life insurance policy's in case anything happened to either one of us. My use of his ss# was in regards to getting his benefits for our son......NOT ILLEGAL. I had to provide mine too.......and the SS office pulled up our son's name under both of our numbers. These people are obviously insane and are trying anything they can to attempt to hinder to me. They are upset becaue I am doing well and about to be an RN and are trying to hinder me.............it is so obvious. This is 2 years later and now you are trying to say I stole your personal info.....come on now..........now that you know I'm about to be a paid RN know you want to try to find something to create a uneccessary drama. That's it dammit............Im changing my cell phone number.........I tried to be nice but this is getting ridiculous. Bd sends another message saying you got a big legal battle coming up. I told him "my battle is the lords. I wish you well."
This is just sad.................know you see why I don't want my son around those people.. Ugghhh I could just SCREAM!!!
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Post by gemmani on Sept 8, 2008 7:39:24 GMT -5
Oy vey. It sounds kind of crazy over there. I would have no clue how to balance the needs of my son with these Kings and Queens of Deranged Land.
Does your BD know how to think for himself? Or does mommy tell him what to do all the time?
It's hard, because on one hand, your son needs to know his dad. But on the other hand, those people need medication. So what to do here?
I think you guys need a mediator or something. A neutral third party person who can help you guys arrange an acceptable visitation agreement while keeping you and BD seperate. But that only deals with your son. As for you......maybe you should keep records of all the communication between you guys. Maybe get a TRO (not including visitation) or something. It's a hard situation.
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Post by youknowwhatitis on Sept 8, 2008 15:47:31 GMT -5
Thank you for finally understanding..........now you can see why I"m so fed up with the situation.
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Post by bmdramaof2 on Sept 8, 2008 17:24:23 GMT -5
Yea I agree with gemi seek help and try to come to common ground regarding this and also you seem like your successful I know RN's bring in good money maybe you need to do a chidsupport calculator and see if you if can be off set. I mean the guy is disable being if it's out of stupidity or whatever it happened and he has to suffer for the rest of his life. I know a guy that was in an car accident he had brain damage that it set him back aways and like 5 years later he passed of hemage. All in all no one suffers most then that lil boy of yours. He really doesn't need to have this in his life especially coming from the two people he should find comfort and safety from. You seem like a very strong women and know what's the right thing to do. I would look into doing the CS calculator it's on the web for free. We try to be as cordial as possible just for the sake of the kids. One my I really can't stand but that's another story and just want to lay into her so bad but don't for the sake of my DH and SD.
Good Luck
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Post by youknowwhatitis on Sept 9, 2008 16:43:38 GMT -5
Recently God's been working on my heart and real talk you are right. No one is really being super wounded by this but the baby and it is so unfortunate. But I"ve been praying lately for God to help me calm my wild ways. So I can do great for our son sake.
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