Recipe for quality Co-parenting...

[memyslfni]

As CP's I'm sure there a few things we need to check off the list prior to allowing NCP to take child(ren) for the day, week, weekend etc...Please share ur thoughts, I'm sure it would be helpful to some of us on the board who are skeptical... ;D...

For example
1. Will NCP have ur child back the same way they received em?
2. Will NCP keep ur child out of harms way?
3. Does NCP have car insurance?
4. Does NCP even have a license (thats not suspended)?
5. Does NCP do drugs/heavy drinker?

Did I forget something?

[jaylady999]

naw girl i think you covered it. i cant think of anything you left off. while my son is with BD, i have a dont call me unless something is wrong. LOL. he has him for the summer and i check in with my son once a week, after that, its whatever.

i really cant think of anything else, those 5 things are the most important.

[gemmani]

If we were to return the kids the same way we received them, then we'd have to rub their clothes under our feet and do the same with their hair.

We don't have a car, neither does BM. We live in NYC, so it's kind of an unnecessary expense.