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Post by ty1981 on Sept 24, 2008 20:38:52 GMT -5
We lock our doors(even when we our in our house to use the bathroom). We wear seatbelts, helmets, knee pads and other protective gear. We have bank protection, identity protection, fire alarms and a host of other things to protect our bodies....yet when it comes to our hearts we wear it on our sleeves....unprotected. Banana cream pie once went on and on about how I would be sorry about being with my fiancee. Sure, had i met him years ago that would have been true. He was a mess in his 20's. However, we have dated....I have investigated...we live together and I won't be having any kids until we get married. Had banana cream pie not put her heart out there, she would not be in the predicament that she's in. Every person has a responsibility to take care of themselves......especially there heart.
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 24, 2008 23:04:34 GMT -5
clap clap clap. so so true!
we do this, and i am a culprit just the same. you are so right~
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Post by gemmani on Sept 25, 2008 7:32:18 GMT -5
It's scary to put your heart out there. The problem is when one lets the wrong person have access to their heart. It's like some people want love so badly they create fantasies of a loving relationship when it isn't like that at all. They have a hard time seperating reality from what THEY WANT to happen. They ignore all the signs saying, "run, run run!".
From what I'm hearing, BM is waiting for DH to "come to his senses and come home already." She prays nightly with the kids for daddy to come back home. I call her our resident Damsel in Distress. SHe wants her white knight (DH) to come yearning for her, while she does nothing but yell at him. How do you expect someone to just come running back after everything you did? How are you still expecting some dramatic declaration of love from him? That seemed to be a lot of the problem between them, she felt love should be full of fireworks and drama, like a soap opera of lifetime movie special. She thought he should fight for her to "save their love" and happy stuff like that. When will people get that love isn't about that? You can't base it on Disney, you'll be in for a rude awakening.
IDK, I'm just rambling, too. I see so many people messing up their relationships over dumb ideals or silly "roles" that they feel they or their partner must play. I have an absolutely awesome relationship, and I really want others to have the same. So it upsets me to see all this self-created drama that so could have been avoided. Everyone should be happy.
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