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Post by youknowwhatitis on Sept 27, 2008 8:34:51 GMT -5
Tellit I completely understand..............everyone is now pushing me to have a sibling for my son.........not with BD of course..........but I'm young I want to settle down 1st, probably should get married. But the crazy thing is after I had my son I said no way no how I"m never having another baby c-section was not fun...........but now I'm really starting to consider after graduation in maybe a couple of years mating up and having a baby a nice young doc. A cute resident at the hospital was liking me the other day.........so have some other docs......especially the Indian one's...........I think I can pull it off. But that's the only way I would have another child is if the dad was a doctor or some other profession that's not going to get laid off. But I definitely want 1 more a daughter.........I've decided that. Before I'm 30..........no more babies after 30 I'm in my twenties so that's not that much time.
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Post by ty1981 on Sept 27, 2008 11:34:49 GMT -5
That has to be the dumbest post i've seen you make youknowwhat. I thought you were following God's plan. This is the problem with this country, women are planning to have babies without marriage. Haven't you learned that this is not the way to go? Haven't you been hurt enough? Haven't you been disappointed enough? Wait for god to place a husband in your life and think about babies later!!!!No more BMD! It doesn't seem to be worth it.
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Post by youknowwhatitis on Sept 27, 2008 20:50:43 GMT -5
d**n ty...........I said maybe I should get married.......!!!!
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Post by canice on Sept 27, 2008 23:02:20 GMT -5
youknow..... if you read your post it does not even sound like you were speaking on the topic . I seems like you are just looking for a doctor to pay for your lifestyle.
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Post by youknow on Sept 28, 2008 8:46:09 GMT -5
I can't win with ya'll. All I was saying is I would like to have other children but I would prefer a doctor because he is the healthcare field and he understands my lifestyle. Doctor's marry nurses all the time..............because they know we understand them and their lifestyle. The medical field will always have job security people will always have babies and be sick. So I would prefer to have more children with someone who has job stability like me...........hell I could even do a male nurse. Nothing is wrong with wanting someone who will be able to contribute to the children keep in mind I already have one so if I have another that will be two.........with two kids I"m sorry but in this economy you need two incomes. Cs ain't gone cut it.  |
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Post by ty1981 on Sept 28, 2008 14:39:34 GMT -5
I wasn't jumping on you...I just don't want to see you hurt again......God will place someone in your life...I'm sure of it. Just keep praying and relying on him. It will all work out.
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 29, 2008 6:52:50 GMT -5
Hubby and I have made a definite decision to not have any more children. We dont have any together, but its quite alright. People seem to think that just because we got married that we are supposed to have at least one child together. We got married becuz we love each other and we want to build a life together with my son and his daughter and son. There is no law written that states we must have chidlren together because we are married, although our families used to try to push marriage on us. I think they get the memo now that it aint happenin. Children cost too much and besides, we would rather spend our time traveling. He is my soul mate and together, we have 3 kids, end of story  |
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Post by gemmani on Sept 29, 2008 7:18:03 GMT -5
We are waiting until we move into a larger house. Right now, the kids are sharing a room, which is rocking right now because they are very small and young. It won't rock for too much longer at all. We will probably try for a baby around next year or the year after.
I'm with Youknow, I want to have my kids before I'm 30. But that leaves me a good 5 years so that's okay. Not to mention, my job has the best maternity leave and benefits I've heard so far, so I definitely want to have a baby before I leave my current job. (Which isn't happening anytime soon, have you SEEN this economy??? LOL)
Youknow, I saw where you wrote that you wanted to get married first:) Let me give you some advice, take it or leave it: God will put the right person for you in your life. The key is to recognize this person. It may not be who you necessarily would have seen yourself with, but He doesn't make mistakes. I learned that with my DH. Just let things fall as they may, that seemed to always work for me.
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