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Post by wbmama on Apr 11, 2008 8:43:08 GMT -5
BM #1 : I just like her. She's a good mom, we get along great, she is very respectful to me, she's glad I love her kids and her ex. Can't say a negative about her
BM#2 : I respect very little. I cannot say that she's a good mom, because good mom's don't keep their child's father's out of the child life like she does. She keeps the child clean, she doesn't do illegal drugs, and she loves the child. She has held down a job for years and must be good with her money (has a car and a house).
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Post by wbmama on Apr 11, 2008 8:45:05 GMT -5
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Post by downazzchick on Apr 12, 2008 2:21:09 GMT -5
Thank goodness I only have 1 BM!!!! She is a handful! I'm trying to think so I won't be critical but it is hard.  ?? I can't think of anything. If I think of something. I'll be back. |
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Post by lovejones08 on Apr 14, 2008 20:04:53 GMT -5
Like downazzchick, Thank God it's only one of her. The only thing that I can say I respect BM for is the fact that she helped my husband-to-be be an even better man for me. As far as being a good mother, I would give her average because I'm sure she loves her and she buys her things, but my fiance and his mom makes sure she's in extracurricular activities and keeps up with SDs school work. Good mothers will always seek the well being and happiness of their children and unfortunately she hasn't read that memo yet because she doesn't realize that she is hurting her child when she behaves that way that she does. She does keep SD's clothes clean; although she didn't buy but a small portion of that. I thank her like I said before because she makes my relationship stronger.
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Post by wbmama on Apr 15, 2008 4:38:09 GMT -5
Ya know I was thinking last night, I wish my DH would say to his BM,
"every time you act like this, it only makes me love and appreciate my lovely wife ______ even more. Your cruel actions just solidify that I made the right choice in getting the hell away from you. Thank you for being such a Bit#h!!"
LOLOLOL!!!! Wouldn't that be beautiful? I'm going to suggest he say that.
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Post by lovejones08 on Apr 15, 2008 10:43:29 GMT -5
Yes tellitlikeitis, the BMD will either make you stronger or tear you apart but both partners must consciously work at making the relationship stronger because boy it is not easy like we all know. Wbmama, you don't have to ask him to say that to his BM because his actions speak louder that is why he comes home to you everyday. He has already spoken that phrase without speaking. Men are better with nonverbal communication and that is really how we understand them because when they speak we're like WTF spit it out! Express your emotions d**nit! LOL!!! BM knows this and that is why you have BMD. I would be mad as hell too if you are all happy with me ex and I know what is love was like.. ; )
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Post by New to this on Apr 24, 2008 19:35:07 GMT -5
THIS IS A NICE THREAD! ;D
I've read this before but had to come back to it...
I like the fact that she allowed my BF (her BD) to notice and appreciate the difference between a little girl and a grown azz woman!
I like the fact that she lives on the other side of town.
I like the fact of knowing the more she goes against him, the stronger she making our relationship. Just like your men, mine knows when he has found his pot of gold.
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Post by jaylady999 on Aug 29, 2008 18:23:45 GMT -5
This is a really cute thread  and the sad part is, I just dont have an answer right now. Hmmm, let me think really hard. There has to be something good about her, meaning as it relates to my life. Ok, I do think she is a good mother and as triflin as she may seem sometimes, I really think she is doing what she can with the resources she has. Ok, thats it. I'm done  |
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Post by memyslfni on Aug 29, 2008 20:38:28 GMT -5
Besides the fact that she provides them with the materials that they need and keeps them active, theres not much more i can think of. Well actually if u count being a real thorn in the backside....SHE DOES A GREAT JOB OF THAT..LOL |
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Post by jaylady999 on Aug 29, 2008 20:45:16 GMT -5
((snickers))
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Post by ty1981 on Aug 29, 2008 21:25:39 GMT -5
Ex wife/BM #2...I just like her...her spirit. The way she looks out for her child, my fiancee and now me shows me that she is just a genuine person. Like I've said before, I send her baby (with her new husband) she is a joy to be around and a joy to co-parent with.
Banana cream pie...well my Mom did say if you can't say something nice about someone........
But wait, I do respect the fact that she went back to school with two kids and got her degree. My mom graduated from college when I was a senior in high school so I know and respect how hard that is.
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Post by jaylady999 on Aug 29, 2008 21:27:26 GMT -5
Banana cream pie...well my Mom did say if you can't say something nice about someone........ But wait, I do respect the fact that she went back to school with two kids and got her degree. My mom graduated from college when I was a senior in high school so I know and respect how hard that is. i knew you could do it  |
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Post by gemmani on Sept 2, 2008 8:00:03 GMT -5
Omg, this is a hard one......
I respect the fact that BM.........
The one thing I like about BM is.........
I'm stumped.
Ok, I have one. BM is the best manipulator I've seen. She gets others to pay her way through life like I get the newspaper. That takes talent, doesn't it?
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and the sad part is, I just dont have an answer right now. Hmmm, let me think really hard. There has to be something good about her, meaning as it relates to my life. Ok, I do think she is a good mother and as triflin as she may seem sometimes, I really think she is doing what she can with the resources she has. Ok, thats it. I'm done 
