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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 11:00:38 GMT -5
BMs are good at harrassing people. Oh now I'm harassing you. If I recall, YOU started in on me and MY opinions? So don't play the sheep now. Anywho, Let's hear some more about YOU. I love to hear BM/GF stories. Besides I dont start work for another three hours... ;D Yeah but you followed me into a whole other thread to make a comment to me and not the post. That's harrasment in my book. |
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Post by memyslfni on Sept 13, 2010 11:01:01 GMT -5
Hmmm, ur 22 with no kids?? Can't u find someone who doesn't have kids along with the added drama filled BM?? I'm just sayin..  I guaranteed you'd be 91.9% less stressed without having to deal with a man with 'other' kids. But if you are anxious to be with a man that does, at least make sure he's got HIS responsibilities sorted out with the BM with regards to the who, what, whens of the child so you know he's not just letting her run his life which will in turn affect yours. Ummm excuse me? You sound very ignorant. People can date who they please. WHO are you to ask them why can't they date someone w/o kids like themselves? Are you having a hard time getting dates because men don't have respect for BMs like you so you're only chance at getting dates is to discourage chidless women from dating men w/kids? Sounds like a desperate move to me, I wouldn't listen to this advice. Excuse me, who's calling who ignorant here?? That was MY opinion, so if you didn't like it, YOU should've kept it movin...And I'll say it again, YOU didn't like MY comment! Let me also make the correction that it is my BD who tries to get dates with ME while he has an associate/gf....I HAVE A MAN... ;D Smooches  |
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 11:24:24 GMT -5
Hmmm, ur 22 with no kids?? Can't u find someone who doesn't have kids along with the added drama filled BM?? I'm just sayin.. I guaranteed you'd be 91.9% less stressed without having to deal with a man with 'other' kids. But if you are anxious to be with a man that does, at least make sure he's got HIS responsibilities sorted out with the BM with regards to the who, what, whens of the child so you know he's not just letting her run his life which will in turn affect yours. Ummm excuse me? You sound very ignorant. People can date who they please. WHO are you to ask them why can't they date someone w/o kids like themselves? Are you having a hard time getting dates because men don't have respect for BMs like you so you're only chance at getting dates is to discourage chidless women from dating men w/kids? Sounds like a desperate move to me, I wouldn't listen to this advice. You see this thing called quote? It works! I don't see anywhere where I called you ignorant. I said, hold up......read it..., there you go. YOU SOUND IGNORANT. |
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 11:28:52 GMT -5
Ummm excuse me? You sound very ignorant. People can date who they please. WHO are you to ask them why can't they date someone w/o kids like themselves? Are you having a hard time getting dates because men don't have respect for BMs like you so you're only chance at getting dates is to discourage chidless women from dating men w/kids? Sounds like a desperate move to me, I wouldn't listen to this advice. Excuse me, who's calling who ignorant here?? That was MY opinion, so if you didn't like it, YOU should've kept it movin...And I'll say it again, YOU didn't like MY comment! Let me also make the correction that it is my BD who tries to get dates with ME while he has an associate/gf....I HAVE A MAN... ;D Smooches Did you catch that? Also, I don't care about your BD, that whole concept is just degrading. AND he's not trying to get a "date" with you. He just wants to f**k you, AGAIN, LOL. DUH. How old are you? Geez! |
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Post by memyslfni on Sept 13, 2010 11:43:24 GMT -5
You don't like the concept of the word BD?? Uumm, your dating/sexing one...lol.
And that's why some BM's will phuck their BD's intentionally, to spite young naive broads like yourself..hahaha
So yes, he still wants this azz...whether he wants to date it or not. Again, ewwwww!
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 12:17:29 GMT -5
You don't like the concept of the word BD?? Uumm, your dating/sexing one...lol. And that's why some BM's will phuck their BD's intentionally, to spite young naive broads like yourself..hahaha So yes, he still wants this azz...whether he wants to date it or not. Again, ewwwww! LOL, I said the concept is degrading. The fact that you let some guy knock you up and leave IS degrading. I haven't ever experienced having a guy leave me when I became pregnant so I wouldn't know if I don't like it but I suspect I wouldn't like it. I don't have a baby daddy so don't try to include me in the charade. AND DO NOT PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH, THAT'S ALL YOU'VE BEEN DOING this whole time. let you tell it- I called you ignorant when I really said you sound ignorant.... I don't like the concept of BDs when I really said it's degrading to have someone get you pregnant and leave... come on so I can add to the list of nuts you keep making up Having a baby daddy as a boyfreind is nothing compared TO ACTUALLY HAVING A BABY DADDY. |
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Post by memyslfni on Sept 13, 2010 12:26:57 GMT -5
"The fact that you let some guy knock you up and leave IS degrading. I haven't ever experienced having a guy leave me when I became pregnant so I wouldn't know if I don't like it but I suspect I wouldn't like it."
Here you go clumping us all into a bunch again...smh. For the record my childs father didn't leave me, I left him three years after our child was born and while we were engaged..LOL.
Notice the first three letters in ASSUMTION (you wear it well).
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 12:28:41 GMT -5
Women like you have to compensate for thier shortcommings by doing exactly what you are doing here. That syndrome then developes into pride, in which you should not have regarding your unwed motherhood. A little humilty goes a long way. My BFs BM has the right idea, that's why we have no qualms.
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Post by memyslfni on Sept 13, 2010 12:49:54 GMT -5
YEA OKAYY ;D
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Post by ty1981 on Sept 13, 2010 19:22:58 GMT -5
I guess the BM in your case had her baby by osmosis, Tri. I think your SO should be ashamed too.
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Post by appleblossom on Sept 22, 2010 1:50:02 GMT -5
Hmm. Sounds to me like he's just whispering all that sweet pillow talk in your ears just like he did to baby mama #1.
He probably told her the same stuff he's telling you right now.
Honey, men say what they mean. If he said he doesn't know how to feel about the pregnancy, then it means just that------- he's confused as to how to think; happy,sad,mad,depressed,trapped.
You deserve better than that. You deserve a man who, when he finds out the woman he loves is carrying his child, he shouts it from the rooftops. A man who gets that goofy sh*t eating grin from ear to ear on his face at the very idea that he and the woman he adores has created a life together.
You deserve a man who doesn't have to think about whether or not he should be happy about a pregnancy, but a man who KNOWS in his gut that he picked the perfect woman that would honor him by carrying his child.
When you find that man, you will know. And you and your man will be thinking about names for the baby instead of going on a website asking total strangers to validate his love for you.
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Post by ydmjq292 on Oct 6, 2010 22:12:05 GMT -5
I agree with you 100% a real man who is ready for a committed relationship would be ecstatic about having a kid. He may have fears of what to do or how to raise a kid but none the less he would be excited about it.
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Post by caderona on Oct 15, 2010 17:34:44 GMT -5
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, get out! you are too young for that mess. But if you decide to stay, please do not become his Baby Mama too. Let him put a ring on it for God's sake! I totally agree with triciatenaka that a Baby Mama is not the same as an EX-Wife with children. Crazy Baby Mama's are the weak losers that your man should have just made give him a blow job.
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Post by Cee on Nov 21, 2010 17:04:57 GMT -5
YOU WILL NOT be a baby's ma ma if you divorce him after you all have had children!!!!! You will be an-ex wife and they are not the same! Big difference. And she should consider dating someone with no children, if that's her choice! Because she will have drama if she is dealing with someone with a ghetto mentality and if he doesn't have a backbone...Well There It Is....Ph.D from the Society Of Having A Hard Head. Undergraduate studies from: The School Of Hardknocks
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Post by Cee on Nov 21, 2010 17:18:55 GMT -5
At Tricaneka, I'm so glad that you set the record straight. A BM and a WIFE are 2 different things. They are not the same!!!!!!!!!!!!
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