Lets suppose...

[gemmani]

I stay on this board all day, it's on my favorites list. It's the only forum that I actually post to, and honestly, you ladies have kept me occupied throughout some really boring days. This is my at-work retreat

[youknowwhatitis]

I have dealt with BD but this letter is to his sister:

Dear Jerian,

I guess you thought I would be out for the count. I guess you thought you were better than me and that I was trying to scheme on your brother. By now I know your face is cracked because in reality your brother tried to scheme on me. But he didn't know who he was dealing with or he wouldn't have tried it. You traded your relationship with your only nephew for a careless rude remark.............that shows me your thinking skills are way off. Never thought I would progress to point where I could deal with your family in spite of what they did and still succeed with my life and son. Well guess what I did......and I know that hurts your feelings because you have been wishing ill on me since before the baby was born. Now you can see that your plotting scheming contempt has come to nothing. I am getting 1000.00 a month from your brother.......yep another increase. And doing quite well. The old me would've cursed you out but I'm growing and frankly I feel sorry for you......because you are quite sad.

-youknow

[ty1981]

Dear Banana cream pie,

I could go on and on about the petty things you pull but in the end that would benefit neither of us. I am sorry things did not go the way you planned them to go in your relationship. That is life, we all have failed relationships, we all have had broken hearts, we all have made mistakes. You see life is full of ups and downs and its not if you have storms in your life ( rest assure, they will come) it's how you handle them. We both know about the things you have done and deep in your heart you know they are wrong. I know I am the easiest person in all of this to hate and attack. It's easier to blame me than to look at the situation for what it is, you and he made mistakes, but I can not hold those mistakes against him, anymore than any man you date can hold those mistakes against you. I've had relationships that have ended poorly too, but in the end you have to let go, reflect on decisions you made and push forward. I am not the enemy, I am just a person trying to live my life trying to do the right thing and most of all trying to be happy. I wish you happiness too, if not for any other reason than you are a human being( and the mother of my future husbands children. With all that being said, let me help you get a few things straight.....We will be together(I'm not leaving him), none of your antics will drive a wedge in between our relationship, while sometimes antagonizing, you will not run my life, I will not focus energy on you( if you are only out to start trouble), they are your kids...but they are his kids too( best believe I will go to war with him, support him help pay for court dates, the best attorneys, whatever he needs to see and provide for his children). Other than that , if you never talk to me again that's ok, see I don't get my validation from you.....I personally think you should take a step back and see who and where you get yours from...that's half the battle.

Not going anywhere,
Ty

[omg2crazy]

Oh boy, I could go on for days. Lets see firstly-I have told you before karma is an ugly thing. You decided to mess around with my bd when you knew we were already involved and had a child. Yes, it was his decision too, but you are only responsible for yourself. We have delt with our issues in it together. Then you lie about birth control, insist on having the baby while saying its such a burden to you but you are having it anyway. Okay fine-then when he & I work out what was already started (4YEARS B$ U CAME ALONG) you want to start problems with ME. I didnt get you pregnant, I didnt cheat on my bm. BUt yet you come at me with your drama. You have done so much dram to me over these years, bust out our window, slash my tires, his tires, attack me at 8 months pregnant, call with harassing calls OVER & OVER & OVER, manipulate your kid to say nasty things to us, talk about my kids, call my job, call his job, you've DONE EVEYRTHING to get to us and yet we are still happily together and now happily MARRIED with not 1 but 2 wonderful boys. You wont let him see your kids unless he wants to be with you-YOU ARE A NUT! Ur unstable and really should never have had kids, you drink too much, bust beer bottles in your house around your kids and dont care, you damage them in ways you dont even realize. I hope you get help b/c you can never be me, you can never replace what we have. I am sorry your so d**n bitter and evil but you brought it on yourself. You have never given up and you know you are crazy-GOOD LUCK & GROW UP!




whew that felt so good-LOL