Why would I want him if........

[youknowwhatitis]

He don't need to buy my sob story...............after he looks at my sexiness, intelligence and overall worth.........he will wife me. Cause I am all that and a bag of chips................when a woman is GREAT.............weak men can't handle it..........so they try to down play her, abuse her etc to make himself feel better.........that man was BD and I know it. He couldn't measure up and didn't have what it takes to deal with a competent intelligent mixed (but still black) woman. I hold my own.........so most black women.................if you look around black women are making GREAT strides..........it's the black men who are lagging so these women of other races can have them. For me it's non-black all the way.

[gemmani]

That is the saddest thing I've ever heard. It's so sad when we have the people who hate themselves...... One bad realtionship and every black man is no good? Talk about stereotyping and being closed-minded. I've dated non-black men. There are the same issues as black men.
Youknow, there is nothin wrong with being black. When you have black men acting wrong, remember that there are men of another race or nationality doing the same thing.

If your preference is non-black, that's one thing, but to put down the entire group is something different entirely. There are so many personal issues popping up at me from those posts, I don't know where to start.