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Post by angelnmo on Apr 24, 2008 23:58:09 GMT -5
For all of you who don't know what a JUMPOFF is, here's the definition:
a girl used strictly for sex, nothing else. 2. a hassle-free f**k!
SIDEPIECE - can refer to a man/woman or mistress you f**k on the side of your regular.
A girl who is used just as a quick f**k
Kassandra is tye's main jumpoff
Courtesy of urbandictionary.com
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Post by wbmama on Apr 25, 2008 8:56:34 GMT -5
I'm learning all this cool hip talk!! LOL
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Post by justlookn on Apr 25, 2008 10:11:34 GMT -5
So, a jumpoff is a very *friendly* person...
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Post by awsomalx on Apr 25, 2008 11:27:31 GMT -5
Boy, that's a limited view of a "Jump-Off" if I must say so.
A Jump - Off can also be someone you simply kick it with but have no ties with outside the time you're together. I mean, you can have a jump - off and not be in another relationship. The Jump - Off could have a significant other but he/she hits you up from time to time.
So for me, a jump - off is just that female that you kick it with when it's convienent for both.
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Post by angelnmo on Apr 25, 2008 14:14:48 GMT -5
A jumpoff is not a term of endearment. It is meant to be derogatory and degrading to the woman. Kind of like a f**k buddy, sideline chick, or friends with benefits. If a man calls you a jumpoff, trust me, it isn't a compliment.
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Post by destini1969 on Apr 25, 2008 14:17:11 GMT -5
;D ;D I AM LEARNING SO MUCH FROM THIS SITE! ;D ;D
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Post by destini1969 on May 19, 2008 6:17:52 GMT -5
Had to go back and read this one.
So is the BM/BD in the same category as the jump off or does the jump off change from month to month/year to year? Or does it ever end?
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Post by ngoodman on May 21, 2008 20:20:20 GMT -5
My BM is my jump-off. But I am trying to take yall advise and stay away from her like that. I am just trying to work this out with this my girl but BM makes it too easy, but I have to d*mn near beg my girl.
So shorty it's just about convience for me.
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Post by nomoredrama on May 21, 2008 20:58:36 GMT -5
How easy is it going to be when you have 2 children with the BM? It is easy to have sex, but child support for at least 18 years is no joke. Apparently, you have not quite understood how hard it is. Do you pay child support for your children?
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Post by LOL on May 21, 2008 21:06:57 GMT -5
If BM is making it that easy for you knowing you have a girlfriend. BM is setting you up and you are making it EASY for her.
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Post by nomoredrama on May 21, 2008 21:26:02 GMT -5
I agree with you on that post LOL.
Ngoodman, have you ever thought that you may be your BMs jumpoff? In reading your post, I think your BM is having her cake and eating it too. She is probably still fooling with you because she believes it is the only way she will get you to help take care of your child.
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Post by memyslfni on May 22, 2008 11:33:03 GMT -5
Good question, Ngood do you pay cs to bm? Or has she been content with that vitamin "D"?  |
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Post by ngoodman on May 22, 2008 23:24:17 GMT -5
yall get off my sh*t! bm trying to talk me into giving us a shot. she was neva that, she was something i did when i was bored. and trust, the last thing i am to her is a jump off.
i started paying child support to bm before the baby was born. cuz i know she needed the help and she was carrying my kid. i give the money to her directly, but since found out about my girl she threatng to take me to court now.
she aint getting the vitamin d no more.
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Post by awsomalx on May 23, 2008 9:56:47 GMT -5
i give the money to her directly, Major mistake (the court will give you NO credit/consideration for that. Write her a check or send a PayPal payment so you can have prrof when you go to court (notice I said when and not if) That's not a threat, that's a promise. She has pretty much told you that your child is going to become a ward of the State and you're going to pay the State for that conservatorship. If I were in your place, I'd start organizing my finances. You need to look up the laws in your State and find out what the percentage is (usually around 20% ) and calculate that into your monthly bills. So if you make $1000 a week after taxes, you're going to be giving her $200 of that every week. plus you'll have to pay or provide for the babies health care cost. Also, she'll be advised on all the "rights" she has to your money and any future earnings/increases. So expect her to try and pull you back into court at her whim. The court will be her new bully pulpit and if's like most BM's (not all but definitely most) expect her to use the court system for her own vindictive purposes. But hey, she could be one of the few and far in between sane ones and your State conservertory time/money could be a breeze and business as usual (rarely is it like that but it does happen) |
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Post by memyslfni on May 23, 2008 14:25:50 GMT -5
Hey awsom, just curious cuz I havent heard too much as far as your bm/bd situation. Would you consider yourself a paycheck dad. Whereas you pay cs only and because of the childish behavior of the bm have distanced yourself from your her which includes the child(ren)? If so what did it take for you to finally make that big decision.?..Did bm do something totally out of context, did she lose your trust...or is she just money hungry?
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