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Post by wbmama on Apr 18, 2008 11:26:43 GMT -5
I think in a reasonable world with a reasonable woman - a BM having the DH's cell phone number is great. EXCEPT - when the BM calls and texts him during the work day or at any other unnecessary time. She has our land line number - won't call it.
What's your situation with this been?
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Post by baby mama hata on Apr 18, 2008 11:31:02 GMT -5
been in that situation. I do not feel that a cell number is necessary or appropriate as long as a land line is available at all times
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Post by downazzchick on Apr 18, 2008 11:38:12 GMT -5
BM does not call at all. She has all the numbers. She calls my MIL, DH cousin and they relays messages from her. She has nothing to say to us but....."I don't think so"...! When we ask to see the child. We have to always call her . She use to call him all the time, but she just relax now. I'm telling you she is just tired, but trying to concoct more scheems!
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Post by jusdntundstn on Apr 18, 2008 13:56:04 GMT -5
These days people have discontinued the need for landlines, especially when they are gone most of the day. But in my case, aint no reason for neither bm's to have any of my #'s because dont none of their kids come over here. Besides If you want to speak to him call him directly. I want to stay less involved as possible, now unlessen they be ready to act like real women that be different.
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 18, 2008 14:12:50 GMT -5
I went thru the BM calling the cell instead of landline. I was upset at first but then decided to pick my battles. I stopped tripping. DH always tells me when she calls & I had to trust him to handle her. DH's other BM prefers to call the house & speak with me. She knows that I am a good stepmom who will look out for SS.
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Post by wbmama on Apr 18, 2008 15:28:56 GMT -5
Yeah, it doesn't bother me that she calls his cell...except for the past few days she's been calling him during his work day and leaving messages on his phone cussing and rasing hell. UNNECESSARY!
That's the sh** that p's me off!
I wanna say "Leave my man ALONE! He's trying to work so he can pay his Child support, pregnant dog!!!"
LOLOLOLOLOL
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 18, 2008 18:56:19 GMT -5
LOL. Wbmama...Ain't that the truth??!! He gotta make the donuts. No matter how ignorant the pregnant dog acts.
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Post by wbmama on Apr 19, 2008 4:57:29 GMT -5
WOW!!! she finally called the land line to bit*ch at me!!! I posted a thread about it!
SO she does have our number! LOLOLO
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Post by jaylady999 on Jul 24, 2008 16:30:05 GMT -5
My DH's BM only has his cell number. She does not have our home number and I just would not have it any other way. I do not even want her calling my house, I cant even see it. I trust DH enough as my husband to know they are not having intimate conversations on the phone. He dont even like her like that. LOL
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Post by gemmani on Jul 24, 2008 17:16:50 GMT -5
Ditto Jaylady's statement.
She wants to pretend like I don't exist (except when she's making up new lies about me), then I won't force the issue by having her call the house phone. Plus it seems too intimate......her calling my personal sanctuary. Its like an intrusion. No thank you.
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Post by jaylady999 on Jul 24, 2008 17:34:21 GMT -5
Ditto Jaylady's statement. She wants to pretend like I don't exist (except when she's making up new lies about me), then I won't force the issue by having her call the house phone. Plus it seems too intimate......her calling my personal sanctuary. Its like an intrusion. No thank you. exactly. i couldnt describe it as well as you, but that is exactly what i think that would feel like, an intrusion. |
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Post by wbmama on Aug 5, 2008 6:13:20 GMT -5
update from me... after months of crap (long story) she no longer has his cell, my cell or our home.
She can email or mail a letter. Nothing she ever has to say is worth hearing. My ss was supposily in the hospital in May...never heard a word from her about it until July. Its a big mess.
*she's not letting him see his child anyway...
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Post by tellit on Aug 5, 2008 6:25:19 GMT -5
Wbmama, you know that I can relate. Did DH ever go to court over her withholding visitation?
DH finally filed the paperwork in BM's state for visitation. Remember he had filed in our state 3 times but BM would not accept summons to court. We are still waiting on a court date.
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Post by wbmama on Aug 5, 2008 6:37:47 GMT -5
we have a court order - she's in contempt - we could take her back - we've learned a hard lesson - she will NEVER do what's right - Attorney fees are something we don't have now....
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Post by gemmani on Aug 5, 2008 10:55:33 GMT -5
That poor child. Having a fruit loop for a mother. He's going to need his dad. Can't stand these women who keep the kids away from the dads.
Just wait wbmama. One day, that boy's going to be really hard to handle for her. The boy will resent her for keeping him away from his dad. And she's going to be calling you guys to help. These women don't get it. You reap what you sow.
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