I need SERIOUS help today ladies!

[omg]

First of all...honestly I know that made everyone feel really powerful and smart and superior to me today-today Im the one. Honestly I could give a d**n less what any of you strangers have to negatively say about me. Themrs and slick and a few others are about the ONLY ones who don’t come at me crazy. As for everyone else especially youknow's raggedy azz. F*ck off! Really. Youknow your goofy dumb lonely azz is just happy cuz today Im getting so called "told" and you can join in-B*TCh get a f*cking life of your own-b/c you need one! And please believe you didn’t kick me when Im down cuz I am never down wench! The only dumb b*tch is you, the b*tch that cant get a man if you wanted one! You can sya all you want and act like your so d**n fly (LMFAO) but everyone knows what your about so im glad it made you feel better not to be the center of the f*ck up today. Dumb stupid azz sleeper, the only b*tch is YOU! Now to end this thank you to the girls who really are sweet, nice and caring and I don’t give a d**n what nuts any other MF gotta say to me. I don’t know you anyhow. As if you are really effecting my life, as if I really take all the bullnuts and rmember it after I close out this raggedy web site. PLEASE! So I will NEVER be posting sh*t on here again so you all can on with your bored azzes and gossip about me now until something better pops up, glad I could entertain you for awhile.....dont worry about hearing sh*t form me cuz Im done!!!!! Good riddens! ;D

[omg]

If I forgot a few of you who have been decent to me, then sorry. Like doin and gem-you both have also been okay with it, even if you didn’t agree. Usually I think....cant really keep track so don’t think im am flying off the wall at everyone. Im sure the ones who think their sh*t don’t stink know who they are. Now I can actually get to work instead of wasting time on this bored though. Good thing

[jaylady999]

Just speechless. All I can say to you is sorry you feel that way. With the exception of youknow, you werent told anything you didnt need to hear. But I dont sweat the small stuff in your negativity. Good luck to ya OMG

[ty1981]

OMG everyone jumped on youknow for her rude azz comments. We all were sad about your situation. But we call it like we see it. So if you want to hold that against us, personally I don't really care. You can't want advice and then just because you don't like the advice given throw a tantrum. So if this is your last time posting. Have a great life and good riddance.

[gemmani]

Well, I'm glad I wasn't part of that tirade, but why does it have to be like that? This is a serious situation that needed strong opinions and these ladies gave it to you. It's all based off of wanting you to do what's best for you and your kids, that's all. If we didn't give a d**n, we wouldn't bother being so honest.
I guess it boils down to just don't ask for the truth if you can't handle it. I'm done with this.

[memyslfni]

Gem,

Thats the thing, some people dont want the truth cuz their so used to being lied to they cant handle it. They get trapped in their own way of thinking. People shouldnt ask for advise on a public board if they arent prepared to get if from all POV's. I keeps it real with my real life friends as I do with anyone on here looking for advise. Now when they keep coming at me with the same ole problem...I tell them that they must like it cuz we dont have to put up with BS from no one. Omg just wasnt ready for me....

As a wise man once said..."I'll tell it to the hot, I'll tell it to the cold, I'll tell it the young, I'll tell it to the old.....I dont want no laughin, I dont want no cryin and most of all dont want no signifyin...."

~petey greene

[gemmani]

It's sad Memy. Because I don't think she's going to leave and she's going to let her boys be subjected to the drug use over wanting to keep him. Isn't it a parent's duty to protect their kids, even it that means from the other parent? How is us saying all of that wrong? I just don't get it.

I can't be fake and fraudulent. If you ask me a question, you'll get an honest answer. I'd want someone to do the same for me (and you ladies have done so. I didn't cry about it, just ingested it and moved on). That was just so childish coming from a married mother of two and one on the way. What an example being set.

[omg]

First of all, my KIDS aren’t exposed to any drugs. If my DH continues to do this, he knows its over-he knows his # of chances to redeeming himself and helping his habbit are slim to none-I don’t need for anyone else to feel anything about it, understand it or believe it. I asked for advice which is what I wanted but to be told Im in denial and so on and talking to like I don’t know whats up is pointless. My DH would NEVER attempt to do any of that in OUR household b.c he KNOWS I WOULD FLIP, it has nothing whatsoever to do with the household doesn’t have what he needs, all he needs is some d**n powder and a dollar and a nose to whatever fool said that. My kids are good, all 3 of them. I don’t do drugs. Im their main parent, if things work with DH great-im overly joyed. If not we will all move on. So I have no more for this topic


and just To add I was very thankful for the advice before people started getting all high & mighty with themselves. I rather do without all that

[gemmani]

Okay. Fine. If you want to believe that, that's your perrogative. It doesn't make it true, but that's your weight to bear. Hope you can live with the consequences.

I'll just get back on my high horse and mosey off into the sunset.

[ty1981]

Your DH will do what he wants to because he knows you are going to stay. You think he can control what he does while he uses....he can't. Youre waiting for him to expose your children. Why take the chance? You didn't think he would stay out to 5am. You didn't think he would get BM pregnant...you didnt think he would do it twice.....yet he did those things...why....because he was on drugs. Im not saying he's not a good person. I'm saying he cant control himself while hes on drugs and the more drugs he does the less he will be able to control himself.

[omg]

Ty-don’t sit here and try to be nice when you were just talking so crazy on that other post. Make up your mind

[ty1981]

Who is being nice my answers have been consistent. I think you take it personally and thats why you fly off the handle...it is what it is.

[damed]

You know what OMG you need to decide what kind of mother you want to be. Either you are going to be a good mother who puts her children's health and wellbeing ABOVE ALL ELSE including your marriage and the feelings you have for your dopefeind husband. Or you're going to be a bad mother...like BM in my sitch...who puts your feelings before your children.

There is no middle ground on this one. I don't know how to say it any more clearly. Your DH is a dopefeind. It is not safe to have him around your children, but it seems like you're so concerned about keeping a dude that ain't acting like sh*t for what?

Is that the exapmle you want to show your children? Is that how a REAL man acts? WTF is wrong with you? Yeah I get that you love him but you know what? SOMETIMES LOVE ISN'T ENOUGH. Don't you need to teach your children that love isn't supposed to hurt?

Unless he wants to get sober(not clean, sober) he will not. And at this point why should he? You're so concerned about him going back to his other BM you're not thinking about who he may be with if it isn't her. What if he's getting high with some trick with HIV and f**king her raw then coming back to you?

And just because you THINK that your DH isn't doing dope around the kids or putting them in harms way doesn't mean that isn't whats happening. What happens when his habit gets so out of control that he's stealing from your home? Stealing your kids toys for dope?

You need to get your mind right and decide what is most important in your life. The health and safety of your children or anything else.

[omg]

I just had a question.....SINCE IM BORED AT WORK!!!
I think it' funny that yes-I told you all my story and hoped for some advice, but since when did you guys crawl up in my DH's head and figure out whether or not he wants to not do this anymore or if he does? Since when did you all sit down and meet with him an dig inside and figure him out? Hmm-for some reason I don’t recall that at all. And for anyone who continues to tell me he's gonna do it around my kids-please take you're ASSumptions and run to another thread b/c you don’t personally know me, DH, my kids or the situation-you know what I briefly explained. And HELL NO! My husband has NEVER and would NEVER bring that in my house or near me and d**nED sure not our kids. He really isn’t a "dopefiend, crackhead" or any of the above. Its okay if you wanna say that to yourself though if that makes you feel "better then me, above me or on top of the game" but it really doesn’t matter-you all really ARENT here to help everyone, only when you feel like it-most of you love to hear a situation and then run at that person with knifes and daggers but the thing is I don’t give a sh*t b/c as I explained to another poster, I come hear with my drama b/c your opinions of me really have no baring on me, so it works out. Now if I go to my church and talk with our bishop and he tells me come to church, focus on the strength of your marriage and so on and be there for him b/c your husband knows his wrongs and marriage is as one, I should say well bishop the people on BMD drama told me to kick him out, they told me he's crack head and he will rbign this around my kids-they don’t know him or me from a can of paint (as I think Jay had said once) but they are certain of how I need to be running my life and they are even more certain of what my husband is doig with his so sorry bishop ill take some strangers word over my life over yours or my own heart. That’s how I should do it then right. Maybe then I wouldn’t be called, weak, naïve, in denial, a b*tch,a bad mom and so on by these people who just so badly want to help me out-LMFAO and these sheisty, fake azz judegmental, wishin they was on it drama queens. Sorry but Im above all that and Im above all your sh*t talking casue as prevsiouly taled about I don’t care what strangers think of me and that’s all every last one of you are and its great that even when I leave this board, you all are STILL talking about me. I assume when some better story that you all disagree with comes along you will attack that person as you have a few others who have come in here. Its all good! Im great!

[ty1981]

As I recall you called your husband a crackhead......My BAH (b*tch a** husband) is d**ned crack head!quote-unquote. You are all over the place. Obviously you give a sh*t because you keep responding to it. These ladies have said nothing about your situation that you haven't said yourself. Noone here knows your husband....al we know is what YOU have said about him. And I don't know what church you go to but I don't know of any bishop who would tell you to keep your kids in a dangerous situation. However, like I said listening to your stories is like watching Jerry Springer. Of course you watch it....are entertained by it....then you walk away shaking your head.